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Are you enough for yourself???

Who really is by your side? Who stands by your side when things are not so great, when you are low and feeling blue, when you just need someone to be there for you .. when you need a break from sickness, or a heartbreak or rejection or if you are just lost and are at your lowest point..

Who really stands by your side at times like this?? Did you ever think? I mean really think??

The people who are there for you at times like this are few and rare. During this time one realises who really cares for us and who are fake pretenders faking their care in our life. Does this sound negative and depressing shit?  I think it's a fact which everyone knows about but is not exactly accepted. We, Human Beings are social animals and cannot exactly live in isolation. But what is the point of socialising with the people in our life who are only with us in our good times and the same people literally runs for the hills during our bad times. But this can be a blessing in disguise. As we now can be aware of the people who really matters in our life, our core people who are there for us in our good times and especially in our bad times. At the same, we need to be there for them any time they need us and not take these beautiful people devoted to us for granted which includes our family and real friends. Because many times we commit this mistake. People who are good to us are usually taken for granted (especially our family) and the people who are really bad to us (well, fake friends)we give way more importance to such people and are forgiven time and again.

Obviously it goes without saying that besides Family and our real genuine friends there is one other person who is always always there for ourselves. And that is you. No matter what, our self is ever present for us. We can rely on ourself like no other person can be no matter how close you are to others. Always give much more importance to yourself. Be your own priority. Find your happiness in yourself(the eternal happiness which lies in you is incredible)and once you do find it you'll figure out that as long as you live you'll never need anyone and be at complete peace with yourself.

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