LOVE

What is LOVE? A four letter word making everyone go crazy trying to understand what it really is, what does it stand for, is it for one person or for all present in your life, is it practical or does believing in it makes you a fool. Is it worth it or time consuming or something worth living for and spreading it everywhere. People write stories on it, poems, make sacrifices, series, movies, books. You name it and it's all most probably done. This word has a certain buzz from centuries past and we can still see it in the present modern world where living life practically is not only a trend but a way of living. If you are not practical you might as well give up and be done with your doomed life. Sounds cynical. Maybe.. maybe not..

 I do believe in living a practical life but no matter what we all have this hopelessly romantic side of us hidden somewhere deep inside us which comes out while watching a certain romantic movie,  a romantic novel or a serial or just watching any cute couple, cute pet, even thinking about city of your dreams. I mean your love is certainly not meant only for one person but it's for everyone and everything that you want to be part of your life of and do love it immensely. Isn't it? Valentine's Day recently passed and I observed everyone's social media status buzzing for love for only 1 person in their life. No offense to them and Nothing personal against them I mean Maybe for them that one person is their world. But what about the other people present in their life. Their family, parents, siblings, BFF'S, pets (let's not forget them) they are always there besides us cheering us with their cute ways. 

But the word LOVE has been built up so much I mean literally so much from Shakespeare to today's epic love writer  whoever it is that we just cannot help but built it more and fantasise about it so much that reality usually pales and withers in front of that fantasy and results in epic put down of our expectations. The ONE for us is that fantasy which we clutch in our hands and believe in it with all our bleeding heart sometimes resulting in hopeful wishing and rejection of people who are right for us and present in front of us to take us ahead in our life but we just cannot resist and wait.. yes WAIT for that ONE person leaving behind good real people. 

In the name of love let's admit it we all have done some stupid things from our childhood. Stalking our crushes to idolizing our current partner literally like there is no other person worth that equation ever walked on this earth, listening to songs reminding us of that special person boring each and every person within hearing range. Even if one is single we listen to love songs over and over again, watch love series over and over again. I am not really sure what one has to gain from such behaviour other than wasting a perfectly good time to do something useful and productive. Oh right one gets to be within range and be a part of that eternal love debacle. I am certainly not against love just the time spent obsessing over it and it really is not fair to lose one's sleep over it. To give up a perfectly good healthy life and to obsess over an fantasy is by no means a way of living. 

Love is an important part of everyone's life but let's not accumulate it and reserve it for just one person but share it with one and all. You cannot exactly expect to live with just one person besides you (except for yourself). You need one and all. So spread and share love this season and forever with one and all.